Advertisers
By ARCHIE LIAO
Sa isang interview, ibinahagi ni Nadine Lustre kung bakit nagtatagal ang kanilang relasyon ng dyowang si Christopher Bariou.
Aniya, binibigyan daw nila ng personal na espasyo at hindi sinasakal ang isa’t-isa para di magkasawaan.
“I love space. He loves having space for himself and I love having space for myself because when we are not together, those are the times when we work on ourselves. We discover new things about ourselves,” aniya.
Kapag daw hindi sila magkasama, marami rin daw silang nadidiskubre sa kanilang mga sarili na mas nakapagpapatatag pa ng kanilang relasyon.
“Para kang nag-solo adventure and then babalik ka, you will come home, babalitaan mo siya, ‘I bring you here. I discovered this new spot,’ ganyan. ‘I learned something new,'” bulalas niya.
“Which is nice because there are things that you discover about yourself, or that you discover that you won’t probably discover if you’re with your partner. And that is not a bad thing. People kasi think na parang kailangan together kayo all the time,” dugtong niya.
Kung sa ibang couple, nagiging setback daw ang pagkakaroon ng long distance relationship, sa kanila raw naman ay nagwo-work.
“From the very beginning pa lang we already know si Chris really, his life is really in Siargao, ako talaga Manila. But it works out eh. It really does,” pahayag niya.
Naniniwala naman siyang ang susi lang sa matagumpay na relasyon ay ang pagiging open sa tamang tao.
“The thing is, if you are in the right relationship, it’s going to be effortless,” sey niya.
Kahit din daw nakatali sila sa isang relasyon, hindi raw naman nila kinokontrol ang isa’t-isa.
Katunayan, pinaaalalahanan daw siya ni Christophe na iprioritize ang self-love.
“Self-love because he knows that I work hard, like I really grind, that’s how I am. That I forget to take care of myself, that I forget to have time for myself. He’s the one who reminds me to slow down, stretch, ganun siya,” hirit niya.
“Did you work out? Did you get to read a book? Ganun siya.” pahabol niya.